Ashes to Ashes, Water Over All
June 4, 2008
Piseco, August 2007
Accompanied only by
my dog, I bury Dad’s ashes
in the rock garden.
Mom asked for no fuss,
no ceremony at all,
but I invent my own:
rinsing this jar
his ashes came in
with Piseco Lake
water, then pouring it
slowly over the ash
and dirt and mint
green still in displaced
earth—a small shower
that says water we are
and water we shall be.
Dad, who rowed into
and out of the mist
every morning on this
long loved lake, might
as well rest here
as in any supernal
cloud, or marked by
any chiseled stone.
Who was water then
and is water now.
Blood, sperm, tears,
the sweat of fever,
all salted with what
we might as well call
love, and so I do.
by David Graham
Categories: Water
David Graham
Oh. Nice.
Wow Graham. This hit me in the stomach. (We divided our Dad’s ashes and some of them went into the Pacific — at a place he loved.)
Absolutely beautiful! What a loving tribute to all of life — to a beloved parent and a shared love of nature. Thank you.
Gorgeous poem David. The ritual of water despite us/your mother’s request.
Thanks for the comments, everyone!
David